Over my 40-plus years in hairdressing, one of the most common (and emotional) conversations I’ve had with clients is about grey hair. Do you cover it? Do you blend it? Or do you finally embrace it?
Going grey is not just a colour choice—it’s a mental step. It’s about how you see yourself, how you want the world to see you, and how ready you are to own your natural beauty.
Is Everyone Suited to Grey?
The truth is: not everyone’s hair transitions evenly. Some clients have a beautiful, natural spread of silver, while others get patchy or concentrated streaks that can look unbalanced.
One of the most flattering cases I’ve seen is when the “money piece”—those lighter sections around the front hairline—turns naturally grey or silver. This brightens the face, highlights your features, and can look absolutely stunning. But if your greys are only clustered at the crown or scattered unevenly, you may need professional help blending tones or enhancing the natural look.
Growing Out Dye: Patience is Key
One of the top questions I get: “How do I grow out my colour without looking messy?”
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Start with subtle blending techniques—soft highlights or lowlights that transition your regrowth into your existing colour.
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Use a toning gloss to reduce harsh lines while your natural grey grows through.
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Embrace accessories (scarves, headbands) during that in-between stage.
Do You Feel Older?
This is the question that makes people hesitate. Honestly? Going grey doesn’t make you look older—it makes you look authentic. What really ages us is dull, unkept hair or a style that doesn’t suit our personality anymore. I’ve seen women look more vibrant, chic, and confident with silver hair than they ever did with dyed brown or blonde. It’s all about the cut, the shine, and how you wear it.
Must-Have Haircare Products
Grey hair is unique: it tends to be drier, coarser, and more prone to yellow tones. That’s why the right products are non-negotiable.
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Purple shampoo & conditioners: to neutralise brassiness and keep greys bright.
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Alfaparf Milano Semi di Lino line: their range has incredible shine-boosting and anti-yellowing products, which I recommend to my own salon clients.
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Moisture-rich masks: to keep silver hair soft and silky.
Of course, there are other great brands out there, but Alfaparf remains my salon go-to for reliable results.
Don’t Forget the Eyebrows
Grey hair naturally changes your face framing. Dark, heavy brows can look too harsh against softer tones. Consider tinting, lightening, or reshaping your brows to complement your silver.
Changing the Dress Code
Once you go grey, your wardrobe may need a little refresh. Grey and silver hair pairs beautifully with bold colours, crisp whites, and jewel tones. Avoid overly beige or washed-out shades that can dull your look. Think of it as an opportunity to reinvent your personal style.
Final Thoughts
Grey is not just a colour—it’s a statement. It says you’re confident, unapologetic, and ready to embrace who you are. For some, it’s the most liberating beauty choice they’ll ever make.
If you’re considering this journey, know that you’re not alone. I’ve guided countless clients through the transition, and every story is different. The key is to work with your natural hair, not against it, and to embrace the change as a celebration of your individuality.
✨ Your Turn: Have questions about going grey? Curious which products or techniques would work best for you? Drop me a message or book online a free Consultation - I love helping clients navigate this exciting chapter with confidence.